thoughts of the day

1) Find out what you love and what you are talented. Trace these things at all costs. Is it a BS? I think not, very basic question, but extremely important. It encompasses your life partner, your job, hobbies and other things.

What are the normal obstacles at doing this? Loneliness.
Human being are afraid of loneliness. If you are trying to do this, you are almost belonged to the 10% rare population. In extreme word "alien". So you have to do many things alone. You have to overcome this challenge in order to fully chase something important to yourself. In one word, it is a lonely road.

So how to overcome this problem? We are all human being, we want to be specific when talking about solutions. I think one thing we can do, the best, is to form a group of people like you, who also belong to this 10% population. If you think you are quite unique person, don't downgrade yourself to associate with people who don't understand you.

Beside this approach, I don't know what to do? So my approach is just to bear it. Not a good one, but at least, loneliness won't kill you, hehe.

2) Your voice. Don't be afraid to give your voice. That is your identity, your opinion, your influence, your image in people mind and your confidence builder. Never give up this right; it comes with your right of birth. Always not be afraid to show your identity.

3) Better and Stronger. How? Be your best no matter in what circumstances.
But exactly how to achieve this?
I think practically you have to follow the good image in your mind no matter in what circumstances. Just like playing golf, if you have tiger wood's swing motion in your mind and you can emulate that motion, you will hit a good shoot. But many times, this image get distracted by either someone with louse swing around you, you are frustrated, you are tired, or you are just in bad mode.

Emulate the good and visulized image and form a habit gradually. If you can burn this image in your brain and stick with it, they will become part of your body some time. When this new habit replace your old habit, you will be better.

4) Greatness and making mistakes. The cost of greatness is making mistakes. If you are afraid of making mistakes in playing tennis, you won't be able to serve hard with risk of loosing both serves. It is a terrible mistake to be conservative in tennis. You want to become stronger by making mistakes, psychologically and technically.

5) Enjoyment, having fun and relaxation. It is very important you know how to enjoy life, have fun and how to relax. Without doing this, you are a stupid person in this world.